Run away form home is not soultion. They can break the locak and enter.
Put CCTV and ask your parents to come back. Face them.On Sat, Aug 1, 2015 at 6:20 AM, DU Victim du_victim@yahoo.in [saveindianfamily] <saveindianfamily@yahoogroups.com> wrote:
As per given advise to try for injunction, after discussion with lawyer got to know that it is not possible. because it needs direct threat to parents and witness is also required for this.As of now parents have locked the house and staying separately. But from sources got to know that her plan is big, when she will find home is locked, she will call my parents and when no conclusion through that then she will call police.Do not know which direction it will go...How should I stop her for going and staying at my parents home.If my parents disown me, will it stop her for staying with my parents home. I know it will not help in 498a.is there any other way to handle the situation better.On Thursday, 16 July 2015 9:41 PM, DU Victim <du_victim@yahoo.in> wrote:
After all the social damage she wants to come back.I have changed my home at Hyderabad, so now she can not enter in my house.She want to go to my parents home now, There some of her local relatives will be ready to get her entry in my parents home.Her argument would be, your son is not keeping me with him. I do not have any place to live, so I will be living with you.Actual thing: she left my home along with all her stuff on 25 may with her father. Came back to Hyderabad on 9 June, started staying separately and joined her job. Now her parents and lawyer are saying her to do this, to make their case strong.My question is how should we stop this...1. Will Disowning me by parents help in this matter.2. Should parents lock the home and shift to any other temporary residence.3. My mother has already given a very short letter to SP that "(Subject - Jaan mal ki suraksha hetu) my son is harassed by her, girl family is putting very fake and baseless allegations on my son. she and her family can come here to harass us". A local constable has called my mom for this.Should my mother give more information to constable and ask him to take care when she comes here.4. Lawyer is saying that get her and her family restricted to come to parents place by filing a petition in ADR at parents jurisdiction. That petition is of 25 pages with all the things since starting, which has reference of all her and her family's wrong doings.+ve point- Court notice will be issued to her and her family for not coming to my parents home.-ve point - by this they will get to know that what are the evidences we may have and can plan their petition accordingly. I requested lawyer to make petition very short, but he is not ready for that and saying we have to give complete one on which we will be fighting till end.5. Please guide if there any other wayPlease let me know which one would be the better way to handle this situation.Thanks,Fighter of 498athreatOn Tuesday, 14 July 2015 10:37 PM, "DU Victim du_victim@yahoo.in [SIF-AP]" <SIF-AP@yahoogroups.com> wrote:
Thanks Swarup da and 'A survivor'They are criminal minded, because they are in real estate business. There are some cases on my father in law of Section NIA 138 which I got to know through e-court. Some more land dispute cases on other family members.I am staying separately in Hyderabad. After marriage wife was at my parent's home only for 1 month and 10 days in year 2013. Afterwards Wife met my parents only for 5 hrs along with her parents in the month of June 2014. Hope by this she will not be able to drag my family members longer in her cases.I have got CCTV installed at my parent's home as advised by SIF member. I have bought some spy devises as well.Her father said today that he will pick me from Hyderabad and will take to Rajasthan, if will not come there. I asked him to come and meet here itself.On any further update and question will post.Thanks allot.On Tuesday, 14 July 2015 12:03 PM, Swarup Sarkar <stopabuseofmen@gmail.com> wrote:
its time to play defencive and use techolonogy to capture thier all threats.Instead of that preapre your self for the battel, let them file cases, you will have more strong and jsutifed reason not to take her back then.Regarding going thier home, NO ..NO..NO... AT ANY COST.arrest 24 hours etc , if you have any recorded the same will be sue full , but without any evidence , there is no use to calim such think threat etc.Hope you are staying in seperate rented accomodation , so your parents have to make some strong CCTV and police support and ask them to leave and go to hsuabnd palce , as hsuabnd not living there.Its time to use the techonology . CCTV , Pen camers etc. Go to my blog swarup1972.blogsopt.in ( Stop Abuse of Men) in custom goolge search i had put many such prodecut you can serch.Fear is the main weapen .On Tue, Jul 14, 2015 at 12:23 AM, DU Victim du_victim@yahoo.in [saveindianfamily] <saveindianfamily@yahoogroups.com> wrote:I am from Rajasthan, working in south India, was staying with my wife since last 1-1/2 year after marriage. There is no case on me as of now.Wife left home with her father 2 months back and just after 13 days she came back, started living separately, joined her job.In Rajasthan my in laws and my parents are in Different district.On Sunday 12 July, Around 20 people (In-laws family and relatives) gathered at one of my inlaws relative at my native place and called my father and threatened to harm me in south India and my family in Rajasthan, and asked them to call me in Rajasthan. They even said to kidnap my father and then I will have to come to Rajasthan.They said that they will drop my wife to my parents home forcefully (This is one option in their mind)From one of our reliable source got to know that they have got their case prepared in a way that my complete family will get arrested in 24 hours. By what law is that possible. Inlaws family are criminal minded people.Today I got call from my in laws and they are also telling me to come to Rajasthan. using some foul words as well.my mother has given one letter to SP of parents district around 15 days back. I have given a letter of life threat at my jurisdiction next day when wife left home around 2 months back.They can go in illegal way and want to harm me when I will come to Rajasthan.Their threats are that they can do things in illegal way with me and my family.What should be our next step.Thanks,
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