Wednesday 29 July 2015

Re: [SaveIndianFamily] Re: Need suggestions regarding DV case.

 

Actually , it looks he is desprate for divorce and for that ready to pay any price .

For such mind set only husabnds are suffer more.

Borhter filling divorce or even dream of divorce by husabnd in india is moving form frying pan to fire. Let her file RCR , you can contest, you can put your condition, you can say waht ever you want, but do not increse litigations from your side, at end you will get fustrated and have to pay heavey price.
RCR is a useless section , it used only stategicily, after filling 498A if wife file RCR , menas you won 498a, its only keep patence thats all.

Meet guys , come out form divorce degree fovia... it is a waste paper and too costly for men due to all biased law.


On Tue, Jul 28, 2015 at 8:07 PM, akaash.mra@gmail.com [saveindianfamily] <saveindianfamily@yahoogroups.com> wrote:
 

What kind of logic is that? Nothing stops her from filing RCR, not even divorce. Be ready to defend whatever she files,  be it Divorce, RCR or criminal cases. Anyway she filed 498a , so  on what logic she will file RCR? It will only weaken her 498a case. Even if she wins the RCR, no one can force you to stay with her. At most she can file for divorce if you don't decide to stay with her even after 2 years of passing of decree of RCR in her favour. Focus on criminal and maintenance cases for now. Also address your mails to group.
Akash

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From: anand.bw82@gmail.com
Sent: ‎Tuesday‎, ‎28‎ ‎July‎ ‎2015 ‎19‎:‎58
To: Akash K

Thank u again
But if i dont file divorce and if she files RCR. Then i might me in trouble. She can do anyrhing to give pain.

Thanks

On Jul 28, 2015 7:53 PM, "Akash K" <akaash.mra@gmail.com> wrote:
Going for contested divorce is not advisable specially when criminal cases are going on. SIF does not recommend paying money for divorce if she filed criminal cases.
Life is much more than having a wife. Develop some hobby specially something you are passionate about. Take interest in law and legal procedures. It will only make to strong and empower you. Let her come to you for divorce without extortion money. Remember what they say about war, never let your enemy see you bleed. Put up a happy face and be happy. Its a game of nerves.

Akash
From: Anand
Sent: ‎28/‎07/‎2015 19:30
To: Akash K
Subject: Re: [SaveIndianFamily] Re: Need suggestions regarding DV case.

Thank you very much.
I will never bring her back. Already decided. Can i file divorce now? If yes, can i appeal for divorce on cruelity from her side (just appeal) dont know how much time it will take.
What if i go for mutual divorce if she agrees? Is it all about aluminy in mutual consent divorce?

Thanks

On Jul 28, 2015 7:13 PM, <akaash.mra@gmail.com> wrote:
From your situations it looks very difficult to avoid interim. Still go for strong objection to her allegations. Vehemently deny any DV. Also say that she has been maintaining herself for 1.5 years so she can maintain herself during case also and hence no interim should be given. Lets the case be decided on merits. Also your lawyer may say that make a statement that you are willing to take her back, but never do that unless you really want her back. But I would not suggest taking legal terrorist back. For eventuality of court passing interim show your liabilities like loan etc. and any other responsibilities to minimise the amount.
Akash

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From: anand.bw82@gmail.com
Sent: ‎Tuesday‎, ‎28‎ ‎July‎ ‎2015 ‎10‎:‎50
To: Akash K

Hi Akash,

Thank you very much for your points.
here are the answers of your questions.

1. Are there any issues from marriage?
  No, just after marriage, she started unnecessary demands like a big flat to live, unnecessary abused my parents and brothers from beginning. I dropped her to her parents home on occasion of Rakhi and from there she started disputes with help of her brother and parents and since then she never came back.

2. Did she file interim application?
She already filed 125 for interim maintenance.

3. How much educated is she?
She is doing M.A.

4. Has she ever worked.
Not officially. she was giving tuition classes to children.
 
5. Is she working now?
No.

6. What are the relief has she asked in interim and main application?
In interim, she has asked 15000 per month and in DV she has asked 5000 for personal expense and 4000 for medical expense per month. 

7. Has she filed any criminal cases? If not, are you willing to stay with her?
Yes, DV and 125 is followed by 498A.

Thanks.

On Mon, Jul 27, 2015 at 9:46 PM, Akash K <akaash.mra@gmail.com> wrote:
I am wondering if the question was asked by anand, how gkmja answered my clarifications. Anyways here is what I can suggest.

Your first priority is to dismiss the interim relief. Try to get her past job records. In your reply clearly deny any DV. Bring to the notice of court that she has filed after 1.5 yrs and claim in not bona fide.  Also see, if she has mentioned her education and past job details in her application. if not then tell court that she came with unclean hands. say that she is highly educated (mention exact qualification with any supporting document you have), has worked before, can maintain herself. Cite Mamta Jaiswal vs Sate of MP judgment and Damanreet Kaur judgment of Delhi HC and other similar judgments. Once you have succeeded in dismissing interim claim you can fight the main case on merit. Its her who has to prove DV. but you can present your evidence when stage for your evidence comes.

Akash

On Mon, Jul 27, 2015 at 9:12 PM, gkmja <gkmja@yahoo.com> wrote:
brother,

1. Are there any issues from marriage?  : no
2. Did she file interim application?          : not seperatebt someone told me tht demand in petition is sufficient.
3. How much educated is she?          :       double graduate
4. Has she ever worked.                      before marriage
5. Is she working now?                        : do not know present status
6. What are the relief has she asked in interim and main application? : not seperatebt someone told me tht demand in petition is
                                                                                                                          sufficient.
7. Has she filed any criminal cases? If not, are you willing to stay with her? : not yet.
regards.
gkmja.
From: "Akash K akaash.mra@gmail.com [saveindianfamily]" <saveindianfamily@yahoogroups.com>
To: anand.bw82@gmail.com; saveindianfamily <saveindianfamily@yahoogroups.com>
Sent: Monday, July 27, 2015 8:50 PM
Subject: [SaveIndianFamily] Re: Need suggestions regarding DV case.

 
You have not given information on the following questions to understand better.

1. Are there any issues from marriage?
2. Did she file interim application?
3. How much educated is she?
4. Has she ever worked.
5. Is she working now?
6. What are the relief has she asked in interim and main application?
7. Has she filed any criminal cases? If not, are you willing to stay with her?

After getting answers to these questions we would be able to advise better.

Akash
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